February 5, 2026
It's crucial to have clear communication with your ex-partner during divorce. If you have children, it's even more important to communicate with your ex after divorce to be an effective co-parent.
We know clear communication with your ex-partner may not always be comfortable or easy, but it can create a secure environment to more forward.
The main goal is to stay focused on the children and their well-being. When you are both able to stay focused on the children, communication becomes less about your past relationship issues and more about creating stability for the future for you all.
To communicate clearly, focus on being concise, active listening, and respecting your ex even if you disagree.
Key techniques to clear communication include preparing key points in advance, using simple language, maintaining open body language and clear set boundaries.
Structure, brevity, and managing your tone are essential for effective, direct, and professional communication.
What is the "BIFF" method?
If you are having a particularly difficult time communicating clearly, it may help you to remember the "BIFF" method to minimize conflict. Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm
If you’re finding communication difficult or you’re unsure how to start a clear communication path forward, our team is here to help you.
Bob Leonard Law Group, PLLC
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